How often do you or did you discuss with your partner how many children to have or the spacing of children?
[HAS NO LIVING CHILDREN] If you could go back to when you had no children and choose, how many girls would you have?
[HAS NO LIVING CHILDREN] If you could go back to when you had no children and choose, how many total children would you have?
If you could go back to the time you did not have any children and could choose exactly the number of children to have in your whole life, how many would that be?
If you could choose the exact number of daughters to have in your whole life, how many would that be?