When you make (made) important decisions, your opinion is (was) more important than your partner’s opinion
In your current (or most recent) relationship, who usually has (or had) the final say on when to have sex?
In your current (or most recent) relationship, who usually has (or had) the final say on how to space out each pregnancy (ie how soon after having a child to have another)?
At home, usually who has the final say in the decision on the possibility of you working outside the home?