Have you hurt people your partner cares about as a way of hurting him, or damaged things of importance to him?
How often has your husband done things to scare or intimidate you on purpose for example by the way he looked at you, by yelling and smashing things?
How often has your husband done things to scare or intimidate you on purpose, for example, by the way he looked at you, yelling or smashing things?
Have any of your partners ever done things to scare or intimidate you on purpose, eg look at you a certain way, or yell and destroy things?
How many times has your current or any other partner ever hurt people you care about as a way of hurting you, or damaged things of importance to you?
How many times has your spouse ever hurt people you care about as a way of hurting you, or damaged things of importance to you?