Has a male partner done things to scare or intimidate you on purpose for example by the way he looked at you, or by yelling and smashing things in the last twelve months?
How often did a male partner threaten to hurt any of your children to get you to do what he wanted or to punish you?
How often has your partner refused to speak with you for some time (a few hours, a day or for more than a day), refused to eat the food you have cooked or slept in a different room away from the bedroom you share?