Have you hit, slapped, kicked or done anything to physically hurt your partner when he was not already hitting or physically hurting you/had not hit of physically hurt you first in the last twelve months?
How often have you hit, slapped, kicked or done anything to physically hurt your partner when he was not already hitting or physically hurting you/had not hit of physically hurt you first?
Have you hit your husband when he was not hitting you or had not hit you first in the last twelve months?
How often has a woman hit, slapped, kicked or done anything to physically hurt you when you did not hit or physically hurt her first?
How often has your partner hit, slap, kick or do anything to physically hurt you when you were not already hitting or physically hurting her/had not hit of physically hurt her first?
Thinking about your partner (current/most recent), would you say it’s true that she hit you when you had not hit her first?