Has a woman hit, slapped, kicked or done anything to physically hurt you when you did not hit or physically hurt her first in the last year?
Has your partner hit you when you were not hitting her/had not hit her first in the last twelve months?
How often have you hit, slapped, kicked or done anything to physically hurt a man when he had not hit of physically hurt you first?
Have you hit, slapped, kicked or done anything to physically hurt a man when he had not hit of physically hurt you first in the last year?