Was your secondary school

I am my school friends from school belonged to a musical group

You and your school friends were a group and you all belonged to a sport clubs, or sang in a choir

I and my school friends were a group and we all belonged to sport clubs, or sing in a choir

I and my school friends were a group and we all belonged to sport clubs, or sing in a choir

Before I reached 18, I saw my sister/female cousin being ill- treated or abandoned on being unable to produce a son

Before I reached 18, I saw the hardship my parents/ relatives went through to pay dowry/bear marriage expenses

Before I reached 18, I saw my parents demanding dowry on my brother’s marriage

Before I reached 18, I saw my parents/family demanding dowry on my brother’s/cousin’s/uncle’s marriage

Before I reached 18, I saw my sister being ill-treated or abandoned on being unable to produce a son