Have you done things to scare or intimidate your spouse on purpose for example by the way you looked at her, by yelling and smashing things in the last twelve months?
Have you insulted your spouse or deliberately made her feel bad about herself in the last twelve months?
How many times have you ever done things to scare or intimidate your spouse on purpose for example by the way you looked at her, by yelling and smashing things?
How many times have you ever hurt people your spouse cares about as a way of hurting her, or damaged things of importance to her?