My spouse spends too little time with the children in our home on account of his job or the time he spends looking for work
Have you done any of these things [involving sexual intimate partner violence] in the past 12 months?
Have you ever forced your current or previous wife or partner to watch pornography when she did not want to?
Have you ever had sex with your current or previous wife or girlfriend when you knew she didn’t want it but you believed she should agree because she was your wife/partner?
Have you ever forced your current or previous wife or partner to do something sexual that she did not want to do?
Has your spouse ever slapped you or thrown something at you that could hurt you in the last twelve months?