Have you ever hurt people your partner cares about as a way of hurting her, or damaged things of importance to her? If yes, did this happen once, a few times or many times?
Have you ever done things to scare or intimidate a partner on purpose for example by the way you looked at her, by yelling and smashing things?
Has your spouse kept money from your earnings for personal use when he knew you were finding it hard to afford your personal expenses or needs for the household in the last twelve months?
Has your spouse prohibited you from getting a job, going to work, trading or earning money in the last twelve months?