How often have you caused harm to things or people that are important to your partner, as a way to hurt her?

How many times have you ever insulted your spouse or deliberately made her feel bad about herself?

How many times have you ever done things to scare or intimidate your spouse on purpose for example by the way you looked at her, by yelling and smashing things?

How often have you done things to frighten or intimidate your partner, for example, by looking at her a certain way, yelling at her, or throwing things?

How many times have you ever hurt people your spouse cares about as a way of hurting her, or damaged things of importance to her?

How many times have you ever belittled or humiliated your spouse in front of other people?

How often have you belittled or humiliated your partner in front of other people?

Have you taken your spouse’s earnings against her will in the last twelve months?

Have you thrown your spouse out of the house in the last twelve months?

Have you prohibited a spouse from getting a job, going to work, trading or earning money in the last twelve months?