When was the last time you talked to your main partner/husband about problems you are facing in your life?
When was the last time you and your [wife/partner] talked about problems you are facing in your life?
When was the last time you talked to your main partner/wive(s) about problems you are facing in your life?
When was the last time you and your husband/wife talked about problems/issues you are facing in your life?
Generally, you and your partner [current/last] talk [or used to talk] about your worries and feelings