Have you ever done things to scare or intimidate a wife/partner on purpose for example by the way you looked at her, by yelling and smashing things?
How often did you threaten to hurt any of your children or your partner’s children to get your partner to do what you wanted or to punish her?
Have you ever threated to hurt any of the children (yours or your partner’s) to get any of your partners to do what you wanted or to punish them?