How often have you prohibited your wife from getting a job (outside the house), going to work, trading or earning money?
Have you ever kept money from your earnings for alcohol, tobacco or other things for yourself when you knew your partner was finding it hard to afford the household expenses?
How many times have you ever kept money from earnings for personal use when you knew your spouse was finding it hard to afford her personal expenses or needs for the household?
Have you ever spent money from your own income on alcohol, tobacco, etc, when you knew that it would make it hard for your partner to pay for household expenses?