Have you hit your spouse with a fist or with something else that could hurt her in the last twelve months?
Have you hit any of your partners with your fist or another object that could hurt them in the last year?
[NEVER PARTNERED MEN] Have you hit any of your partners with your fist or with another object that could hurt them in the last year?
How many times have you ever threatened to use or actually used a gun, knife or other weapon against your spouse?