Who in your relationship usually has the final say about whether you and your wife/girlfriend use contraception?
Who in your relationship usually has the final say about how you spend money on large investments such as buying a car, or a house, or a household appliance?
Who in your relationship usually has the final say about whether your wife/girlfriend can work outside the home?
Who in your relationship usually has the final say about about what you do together or how you spend your time?