Have you hurt people your partner cares about as a way of hurting her, or damaged things of importance to her in the last year?
Have you done things to scare or intimidate a partner on purpose (for example, by the way you looked at her, by yelling and smashing things) in the last year?
How many times have you ever hurt people your partner cares about as a way of hurting her, or damaged things of importance to her?
How many times have you ever done things to scare or intimidate a partner on purpose (for example, by the way you looked at her, by yelling and smashing things)?