In your relationship with your (current or most recent) wife / partner, how often would you say that you quarrelled?
Now I will read you some statements about your relationship with your current or most recent spouse, even if you are divorced or widowed: I wish my partner showed me more affection
When was the last time you and your [wife/partner] talked about problems you are facing in your life?
Now I will read you some statements about your relationship with your current or most recent spouse, even if you are divorced or widowed: I frequently show affection to my spouse