Have you threatened to hurt your partner or someone who is important to her in the last twelve months?

Have you refused to speak with your partner for some time (a few hours, a day or for more than a day), refused to eat the food they have cooked or slept in a different room away from the bedroom you share in the last twelve months?

Have you insulted your partner or deliberately made her feel bad about herself in the last twelve months?

Did you threaten to hurt any of your children or your partner’s children to get your partner to do what you wanted or to punish her in the last twelve months?

Have you done things to scare or intimidate your partner on purpose for example by the way you looked at her, by yelling and smashing things in the last twelve months?

Have you belittled or humiliated your partner in front of other people in the last twelve months?

How often have you threatened to hurt your partner or someone who is important to her?

How often have you refused to speak with your partner for some time (a few hours, a day or for more than a day), refused to eat the food they have cooked or slept in a different room away from the bedroom you share?

How often have you insulted your partner or deliberately made her feel bad about herself?

How often have you done things to scare or intimidate your partner on purpose for example by the way you looked at her, by yelling and smashing things?