How often have you pushed, cornered, or pulled your partner’s hair?

How often have you slapped your partner or thrown something at her that could hurt her?

How often have you kicked, dragged, beaten your partner?

How often have you hit your partner with a fist or with something else that could hurt her?

How often have you choked or burned your partner on purpose?

Has your partner hit you when you were not hitting her/had not hit her first in the last twelve months?

How often has your partner hit you when you were not hitting her/had not hit her first?

How often have you hit your partner when he was not hitting you/had not hit you first?

Have you hit your partner when he was not hitting you/had not hit you first in the last twelve months?

I think that if a woman doesn’t physically fight back, it’s not rape