Have you hurt people your partner cares about as a way of hurting her, or damaged things of importance to her?
Have you ever done things to scare or intimidate a partner on purpose for example by the way you looked at her, by yelling and smashing things?
Have you prohibited a partner from getting a job, going to work, trading or earning money in the past year?
Have you spent money from your earnings for alcohol, tobacco, or other things for yourself when you knew your partner was finding it hard to afford the household expenses in the past year?