Have you hurt people your spouse cares about as a way of hurting her, or damaged things of importance to her in the last twelve months?

How many times have you threatened to hurt your spouse?

Have you belittled or humiliated your spouse in front of other people in the last twelve months?

How many times have you ever threatened to hurt your spouse?

How many times have you ever insulted your spouse or deliberately made her feel bad about herself?

How many times have you ever hurt people your spouse cares about as a way of hurting her, or damaged things of importance to her?

How many times have you ever done things to scare or intimidate your spouse on purpose for example by the way you looked at her, by yelling and smashing things?

How many times have you ever belittled or humiliated your spouse in front of other people?

Has your spouse thrown you out of the house in the last twelve months?

Has your spouse prohibited you from getting a job, going to work, trading or earning money in the last twelve months?