Have you done things to scare or intimidate a partner on purpose (for example, by the way you looked at her, by yelling and smashing things) in the last year?
Have you hurt people your partner cares about as a way of hurting her, or damaged things of importance to her in the last year?
How many times have you ever hurt people your partner cares about as a way of hurting her, or damaged things of importance to her?
How many times have you ever done things to scare or intimidate a partner on purpose (for example, by the way you looked at her, by yelling and smashing things)?